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Wednesday, February 18, 2009

One Step At a Time

Okay so my cus Heather tagged me on her blog to do this... It's taken me kind of a while to get to it... but here goes... Also I would like to call out Sherly, Amy, my Mom, Lauren, Karina and Jules to do this!

Let's see what your music has to say about you...
Here are the rules:1. Put your iTunes on shuffle. Or a Mix CD/Playlist on the computer....
2. For each question, press the next button to get your answer
3. YOU MUST WRITE THAT SONG NAME DOWN NO MATTER HOW SILLY IT SOUNDS

1) IF SOMEONE SAYS "IS THIS OKAY" YOU SAY? Hey Julie - Fountains of Wayne

2) WHAT WOULD BEST DESCRIBE YOUR PERSONALITY? Poor Unfortunate Souls - Jonas Brothers

3) WHAT DO YOU LIKE IN A GUY/GIRL? Aint Nothing But Mammals. - Blood Hound Gang

4) HOW DO YOU FEEL TODAY? Be Okay - Ingrid Michealson

5) WHAT IS YOUR LIFE'S PURPOSE? Decode - Paramore

6) WHAT IS YOUR MOTTO? Bad Things - Jace Everette

7) WHAT DO YOUR FRIENDS THINK OF YOU? Just Dance - Lady GaGa

8) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT VERY OFTEN? I'm Yours - Jason Mraz

9) WHAT IS 2+2? Keep Breathing - Ingrid Michaelson

10) WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR BEST FRIEND? Love Story - Taylor Swift

11) WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THE PERSON YOU LIKE? My life would suck without you -Kelly Clarkson

12) WHAT IS YOUR LIFE STORY? Piece of Me - Britney Spears

13) WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP? The Way I Am - Ingrid Michaelson

14) WHAT DO YOU THINK WHEN YOU SEE THE PERSON YOU LIKE? Sober - Pink

15) WHAT WILL YOU DANCE TO AT YOUR WEDDING? Stacys Mom - Fountains of Wayne

16) WHAT WILL THEY PLAY AT YOUR FUNERAL? Crazy - Gnarls Barkely

17) WHAT IS YOUR HOBBY/INTEREST? Don't Panic - cold Play

18) WHAT IS YOUR BIGGEST SECRET? Over the Rainbow - Israel Kamakawiwo'ole

19) WHAT DO YOU THINK OF YOUR FRIENDS? So What - Pink

20) WHAT'S THE WORST THING THAT COULD HAPPEN? Hot N Cold - Katty Perry

21) HOW WILL YOU DIE? Love Remains the Same - Gavin Rossdale

22) WHAT IS THE ONE THING YOU REGRET? I Kissed a Girl - Katty Perry (Now that is funny I think that might apply to two ladies I know... hehe)

23) WHAT MAKES YOU LAUGH? Bad Girlfriend - Theory of a Dead Man

24) WHAT MAKES YOU CRY? Natural Disaster - Plain White T's

25) WILL YOU EVER GET MARRIED? Laid - Matt Nathanson

26) WHAT SCARES YOU THE MOST? Soulmate - Natasha Bedingfield

27) DOES ANYONE LIKE YOU? These Words - Natasha Bedingfield

28) IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME, WHAT WOULD YOU CHANGE? Mercy - Duffy

29) WHAT HURTS RIGHT NOW? In this Life - Delta Gooderm

30) WHAT WILL YOU POST THIS NOTE AS? One Step At a Time - Jordin Sparks


That was kind of fun... some of the songs matched the questions pretty well... well that's all for now!
Love and Peace!!

Thursday, February 12, 2009

Chicken Noodle Soup

Uggg.... So ben and I have been siiiiick!! Since last week we have both been snot bags!! It's been awful. I took Ben to the Dr. last week and they said he just had a viral infection and they couldn't do anything for him...
But then Sunday, after me having missed 3 days of work and his fever still holding strong at 104 I decided to take him in again, and low and behold he had strep.... yeah, and I had bronchitis... so then Monday was another fun filled day of sickness for the both of us.
We pulled out the blankies and had tons of Chickie noodle soup... you know as much as I hate being sick it was actually kind of nice, I mean Ben is five now and he is "a BIG boy" so he has gotten less cuddly... but when he is sick "Mommy" is his world!! He needed me again and he was just the sweetest little love bug, cuddling with me and hanging out with me watching movies. And when I made him chicken noodle soup that was just the right temp not to hot not too cold I was "the greatest person ever and he would love me forever and ever"
So despite the fact that I was exhausted and sick my self it was all worth it to be yet again Ben's hero!!
There is nothing like a mommys love when you're not feeling well, so I pay tribute to all the fabulous mothers in my circle!! We are the BOMB let's giver ourselves a well deserved pat on the back!!
A special thanks to my mom who very kindly took Ben off my hands one evening so that I could get some much needed rest... mothers are selfless and kind and always know when they are really needed.... this we should all aspire to!

So anyways that has been up with us lately. Ben is doing somewhat better now, but he is still getting over the yuckies!
I'm doing better too, but today I'm just super tired since yesterday I shopped my legs off at the Mall of America...
Julie and I road tripped to Minneapolis Tuesday to watch the Raptors play... it was fantastic, a really nice little "valentines" getaway for the two of us. Best of all I got to see Uncle Eric, whom I hadn't seen in well over a decade!! He looked great! He got her and I tickets to the game and then visit with us for just a bit after. He was just as kind and sweet as I remembered, however he was a "GIANT" anymore... must mean that I am taller, I always remembered my Uncle Eric to be this really tall giant... but those are usually the perceptions of young children, adults always seem so big....
So we drove down there, a six hour drive... went to the game, chatted with U.Eric and then we got into a bit of trouble... because there can never be a "Julie and I" situation with out trouble somewhere in the scenario... :)
And since we were there the next day we decided to go shopping at the Mall of America... that place is ginormous!! I bought a ton of clothes since there is on tax on clothes or shoes there... and also because I had just ruined most of my work clothes because some little boy had put a marker and some chap stick in the dryer... enough said!
The drive back was excruciating... we had shopped for too long and were so tired, we took turns driving and made it home last night about 9.30... But it was soooo worth it, it was a blast!
I will add a pic of Uncle Eric and us when he sends it to me...
That's all for now...
xoxo

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Sleep Over

Okay so Ben had a blast at his sleep over!!! We started off by INSANELY taking the three boys to wally world to get snacks... so we loaded the cart up with all sorts of goodies from chips to candy and juice... and of coarse some mommy snacks like pop and tail mix... And with those three deviants I'm sure what could have probably been a 10 minute trip in and out turned in to a rather long trip into the store... but that's okay, they even thought that was fun...lol
Then we got back to my apartment and the fun began... or more like the bickering, because even though they are best of friends they are little boys and they treat each other just like brothers I swear! He has more toys than me or he took the one I want or I gave him a piece of my candy but he didn't give me a piece of his... good grief... well Jules and I pretty much just let them duke it out in Benny's room as long as there weren't any blood curdling screams or gushing blood we saw no reason to be jumping up and down to monitor them!!
We had pizza for dinner and they had an array of junk food!! Ben said that the best part was that I let him eat all sorts of junk and at bed time I didn't even make him wash his face or even brush his teeth... lol the things that they think are special!!
They were watching tv in Bens room but then moved out to the living room and took over the TV out there to watch a movie on demand out there, one called Fly me to the moon... kind of a cute movie for a movie full of maggots... Eric and Alex went out like lights, Ben was a trooper and was the last to fall asleep at about 11.15... then it was bed time for us girls too!!
Julie and I had a good night too, we managed to do mini facials and our nails, we chatted a lot and even got through the movie Maid of Honor semi uninterrupted!! And in the morning we got through through the movie Over her Dead Body... both really cute chickie flicks!
So it was a good sleep over, and Ben had a blast! Unfortunately Sunday morning he started to come down with a cold and now he is out of commission. Sunday evening he had a fever and then Monday he was barking like a seal... so he had to miss school... much to his dismay... yeah right... hopefully he will be back to school tomorrow!
Well that is it for now.
Toddles!

Friday, January 9, 2009

New Years Resolution




























So here we are in 2009; and it seems that time is just being flushed away so fast! To me it seems that just yesterday I was trying to negotiate my life and decide how to tell my folks that I would be having a baby out of wedlock at the age of just 20... and now here I am 26 with my Devilish 5 year old who last year started kindergarten and is just growing like a weed and changing everyday... and I feel like I should try harder to keep in touch with my family, or at least let people who might care know how we are doing and how wonderful he is and how much he changes on a daily basis. So this is my new years resolution.






As we know that I could never keep to a resolution to keep in contact with people on a one on one basis I have decided to start a blog, and I will try to faithfully update it at least once a month. I will send it out to all those that I am in contact with and you can pass it on to those that I am not in contact with if you think they would like to know how Benjamin and I are doing. I love all my family very much from my cousins to my aunts and uncles... I just unfortunately never really had the opportunity to really build much of a bond with most of you and at times I'm not sure I really fell like part of your family, however don't ever think that that doesn't mean that I don't care for each and everyone of you!












So anyway... 2008 was a year... Ben started Kindergarten; he is doing really well. He had a bit of a rough start; as he is the youngest in his class but his teacher was really patient with him and with some persistence and some extra attention he is really doing well now. He also started basketball in December... it's not real basketball, but he likes it, he didn't at first because he thought he wasn't any good but just this last Tuesday he made his first basket!! So he was super proud of himself and it was a super self esteem booster!






Benjamin is a super sensitive boy! But well he is also very DEVILISH... as you can see from the pic, which is from Halloween '08! He was a devil for Halloween... and he was also a skeleton... he usually has two or three costumes every Halloween because he has one for school/daycare then one for trick treat and then we usually go trick treat at the zoo or at the convention center... yes he is a bit spoiled!!






There are a few little girls in his class that he is "going to marry" and his teacher had to have a talk with me because Ben is a "Romeo" apparently he held a girls hand and when one little girl fell down he picked her up and sat her in his lap and kissed her check and told her she would be okay... and that is just "unacceptable"... oh brother!! LOL so we need to teach our children to be nice just not too nice.... but not too mean or then they are considered bullies...






I'm sure parents, grandparents you all think it's very amusing how we children suffer through the lessons of being parents... the greatest revenge, right??? :)












Tomorrow night Ben is actually having his first sleep over, its just with my best friend and her boys... and my best friend Julie with be staying the night too... because her boys haven't ever had a sleep over either... but it's exciting for them!!






They have these huge plans to "stay up forever" and to eat "popcorn till there stomachs explode"






So his room is all set up for camping with tents and sleeping bags and tons of movies and flash lights and comic books... and all his bakogon... which by the way is like his new obsession... bakagon.... to me they seem practically the same as pokemon... but don't say that to him oooooohhhh no, because they are not.... no sirrrrrr... yeahh...






So anyway tomorrow night why the three little monsters take over the latter part of the apartment my girlfriend Julie and I are going to watch chicky flicks and give each other facials and do our nails and stuff...






It's kind of a decompression night after the holidays... Also this weekend my boyfriend John is gone this weekend for guard and he will be gone for about 4 days since he is getting ready to go to Saudi Arabia in February...





This is a pic of him, and also his son Brody who is two and believe it or not Brodys bday is October 10 just like Ben, isn't that crazy!! Ben loves having Brody around! John has him every day for a few hours and then every other weekend... so it works out that I have Ben all week every week and every other weekend so John and I live together, so we have our boys together on the same weekend and then no kids one weekend... which actually is kind of nice!! Gives us a weekend off to our selves!





John is a good man, is is good to me and to Ben, he is a man though, and like any man does to a woman he does drive me nuts at times. But over all he is genuinely a good guy!





Oh yeah one of Ben's xmas presents was a puppy so a new addition to our family was Oscar Bingo... named by Ben... he is a very cute dachshund... he was born on 10/1/8... he is actually a very good puppy... but very puppy... and the whole potty training and biting stage drives me crazy!! But he is soooo cute... it makes up for it!! And he keeps me company!! John when he isn't on guard duty works over nights, so I really don't see him much during the week, so the puppers is my night companion, he keeps my toes warm!! And gives my some kind of raunchy kisses in the morning... :)








I'm doing pretty good, I work at the VA hospital. I'm only a contract worker, I've worked there for there years now as a contract... but at least I have free medical. Which has come in handy recently!! Just a few months a go I had to have emergency gallbladder removal... and for awhile now I have been dealing with chronic headaches which they aren't really sure why I get them, they might be related to some calcification's that they found on my brain last year... but I have to take some pretty expensive medication to keep my headaches to a minimum... so the free medical insurance is nice!! But I'm doing okay... my headaches have been better... recently though they have started to get worse... so I will have to probably have some more test soon... I'm just sort of putting it off because the next step they said if meds didn't work would be a spinal tap and possibly a shunt from my brain to my stomach to help keep the pressure down... because they think that I have something called pseudotumor which is a constant elevation of spinal fluid pressure... They only think that though because I had meningitis in 2005... but for now I'm surviving, and I'm happy!!
























Well that is it for now... like I said I will try to add something at least once a month...



love and kisses to every one!!